Hey all. I want to give you an example of an incident that happened to me in India in January this yr. K, here goes. I made a guy friend in india, and i thought he was really cool, came across really decent! a good family background. We chilled together and smoked togther. It was me, my mum and dad stayed in their flat. Basiacally one day my parents went on a shopping trip and i was left on my own to do wotever!! so i thought perfect opportunity, i invited my friend bak and we chilled, drank some wine etc etcm smoked. Everything was fine.. until.. we did make love and we kissed that nite... was cool. basically my dad returned, and i tidied up all our mess.... and he called me wen i was out hte next day and asked me if i had taken money from the flat, its was a 500 pounds tht went missing.. and i said no.. my dad left money in the draw. wel lbasically he also asked me if i had brought anyone bak to the flat, and i said no - so i had ot lie, cus if he found out he wud kill me. but in the end i had to say i called my friend to flat. we called the police and found out it was him, i was in shock cus of the way my dad was treating me - i abused his trust of leaving me alone !! but it was only this guy, not 100 random guys. My dad called the police, he went ,mental, was throwing abuse at me, calling me names like bitch, wished i was dead, him and his friend were drinking in the flat, and in india if u want help and ur a female, its so hard cuu cant even trust the police, you mite get raped or something or abused, or they cud kid nap u cus they know ur foreign. Basically i feared for my life that nite... was tremling, shaking, i had no one to turn to, i didnt even do anything. my dad thought it was my fault cus i let my friend in and it was fault the money went missing. he threw a bottle of whiskly at me, nearly hit me in the eye, smacked me over the head, fell down... i cudnt stop crying, i just wanted to get my passport and run..... is this normal behaviour