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Before I sign off for tonight, I had been floating around on some other sites and I came across aomething I liked and just wanted to share it and get your thoughts on it.

\"When a codependent dies, someone else\'s life flashes before their eyes\"

Let me know how you feel about that statement. That is part of what helped me turn a major corner tonight. The other part was all of our conversations with each other.
Have a peaceful rest tonight.
deleted_user
deleted_user
wow that is scary
MineraPearl
MineraPearl
I know what that is like and I know how good it feels to stop thinking about \"them\" and re-focusing on ourselves.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Boy, that statement definitely motivates me to take care of ME!! Thanks for sharing!
deleted_user
deleted_user
That statement really provides some hard perspective....I really do not want that to be me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
WOW!! I never thought of it that way. Makes perfect sense though. I can\'t think of too many things from the past few years that I could claim as \"mine\". I\'m always too busy trying to \"fix\" whatever problem my husb. or his family might be having. I am getting better though.
Thanks for sharing such an intense thought.
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