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for all the bitching i have done about my bf, i realize he has taught me some pretty good things.
one of them would be to just deal in the now. don't borrow trouble and don't get out the crystal ball.
sometimes we are waiting until the time is right to take action.
just gotta have faith that when the time comes you will know it. and accept that you will wait until the time comes.
it's about surrender and faith.
not really...
i really want to know how to live, now, and not for tomorrow. like in the 'present'. i apparently watch one to many happy ending lifetime christmas movies this weekend, but really, i want to live in NOW. and honestly, even as a kid, i don't think i ever did. always too worried about being responsible, being on time, being this, and not being that...blech. I am NO FUN!
step 2 - continue doing things
"just change" too sensical and rational?
get some spirituality....
that's what did it for me.
So I read something this week that felt like a spiritual two by four whacked me upside the head!
"To work out one's salvation is not to sit idly by dreaming and yearning for God miraculously to thrust bounteous blessings into our laps. It is to perform daily, hourly, momentarily, if necessary, the immediate task or duty as hand and to continue happily in such performance as the years come and go, leaving the fruits of such labors either for self or for others to be bestowed as a just and beneficent Father may determine." David O. McKay
It's all about gratitude...going with the flow...living in the moment...like a child.
Salvation...recovery...whatever you want to call it.
I'm trying so hard to live in the moment...I'm trying to concentrate only on what I'm doing at the moment. I hope to learn...and to live.
How do you live in the moment, like a child yet still take care of business? That is my struggle I guess. I so wish I could give a crap about getting on a bill collector's list or the lights being shut off and go off 'playing' and have fun..I really do, but I can not.
Arg. Life is nuts! ;o)
If you observe children, you'll see that they live w/ joy in their hearts and in that very moment. They cannot see beyond that. They naturally feel things to the fullest and then let it go (happiness, excitment frustration ect.) It's awesome and the most spirtual thing I've seen.
I see this in my girls and they are my greatest teachers.
Maia- I think you need to get out of your head. If you let things go a little I think you'll find that things start to happen with not so much effort on your part. Not all things can be controlled. Have faith that the universe can handle some of these issues. Have faith that you will be ok.
Blessings to you sweets
yep. i'm down with the eastern religion/philosophy thang.
i have my own custom blend of spirituality. it works for me. take the best of the majors, a bit of the minors,some of the ancient greeks and romans, throw in some jung and vanzant.
that's me.