Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
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Ive decided to separate from my boyfriend as he cheated on me! i also have found myself a therapist for my issues! and hes very good, and not just doing it for the money like some do, am gona c him once a week. Im also having an addiction to marauna, i love smoking and getting stoned! and i dont know if i want to stop this.
Im not even sure how i should be feeling, im making progress, but i find its hard to accept reality!! this is gona be a long journey, and well starting with the basics like eating proper, rest, etc ,sleep will help. i also need to clean my house its a tip = i feel like i have ngelected the house as well and it doesnt make me feel very good! trying to use my time wisely. i miss my b/f and find it very hard without him! i called him this morning. U see with him, hes really normal at times! i am so confused, i just want to feel safe and secure from the inside!! any tips or advice! it is normal to feel like this?
Ive decided to separate from my boyfriend as he cheated on me! i also have found myself a therapist for my issues! and hes very good, and not just doing it for the money like some do, am gona c him once a week. Im also having an addiction to marauna, i love smoking and getting stoned! and i dont know if i want to stop this.
Im not even sure how i should be feeling, im making progress, but i find its hard to accept reality!! this is gona be a long journey, and well starting with the basics like eating proper, rest, etc ,sleep will help. i also need to clean my house its a tip = i feel like i have ngelected the house as well and it doesnt make me feel very good! trying to use my time wisely. i miss my b/f and find it very hard without him! i called him this morning. U see with him, hes really normal at times! i am so confused, i just want to feel safe and secure from the inside!! any tips or advice! it is normal to feel like this?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
As far as the man goes, I do not envy you one bit! arggg..I remember that feeling after a break-up..heck..before a break up..feeling confused and crazy. It's obvious that you know he is bad for you. A relationship with a cheater will just never work. You deserve better!! You will do. and yes..it is normal to feel that way. Especially, as you have said, when you are someone who has a hard time accepting reality..(pot is great for making sure this doesn't happen by the way.)
Take care of yourself.
I was getting nothing accomplished by drinking every night. I know I am worth more than that. I just have a tendency towards depression and co-dependency.