I was recently diagnosed with codepency issues. I have read and done some research on the subject since. I feel like my eyes have been opened and I have a whole new outlook on things. I feel like Julia Roberts in the Runaway Bride. It is sad. I do not know how I like my eggs. I have joined this group for some insight. Just like the movie I am learning what I like and how I feel. I feel like I have been a puppet for a very long time. I am a people pleaser. My poor husband married me because I morphed myself to be what he wanted. Now everything has been about him. There is very little of me in the relationship and I am consequently rocking the boat to find a piece of me. I have a lot of changing and learning ahead. I am starting to express my wants and needs. It is extremely difficult. I have always allowed everyone to come first not giving myself enough credit or feeling worthy enough to come first.
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