So for a week, i've been doing what i want, saying what I mean, meaning what i say. Not maniupalating. letting him deal with his falls, not trying to make anything better for him. I have started projects helping other people, more of a charitable type of help. I think i have to direct this part of my personality, the part of me that wants to help, towards people who actually want my help instead of forcing in on him. And the result....kinder, gentler, man. By me not helping him, he is helping himself. And he can totally do all the things i normally do for him and i think it makes him feel stronger. He feels stronger, he is more loving. He is more loving, I am more secure. Stlll smacks of codependency, but hey, its only been a week!
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