tell me about the other person in the relationship ..the one who is not codependent. what if they really are doing nothing wrong. like in my case i am codependent on my friend. we dont live together. i basically feel like i need her to need me .well she doesnt feel that way and she shouldnt cater to me and believe me she doesnt. if anything she is very tolerable and patient with me. i honestly feel if i worked on me and my self esteem we would have a somewhat healthy friendship .. does the "other person" have something to do with the codependency all the time? or is there something shes not giving me that she should be giving me? basically i am trying to figure out if it always takes two to tango in a codependent relationship.
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