My boyfriend is a pot smoker has been since he was 14. He is now 35. Over the last few months, I have noticed he has been smoking several times a day 7 days a week. He is beginning to lie to me about his whereabouts and the money being spent. When confronted, he turns it around on me and makes me think that I'm just being accusatory, paranoid, and non-trusting. He has no motivation to do much of anything except having fun with his friends, smoking pot, or vegging on the sofa. Never having been in this situation before, I need help understanding what is happening and how to confront it. I seem to accomodate it and not want to rock the boat. I have actually become his mom and not his partner......possibly his scapegoat and feeling like his sugar momma.
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