Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
I'm enjoying the discussions on the message board and making friends, but feel like I am not getting my needs met. At the core, I want to recover from Codepency and Love Addiction. I have came up dry in my local area and do not feel that Al Anon or Al Ateen is the place for me. Is there a way to work with a sponsor online or even with another group by phone. Is there a network for some one who is willing to do the hard work. I'd appreciate any advice.
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Hi, look on website for CODA meetings in your area. I used to go to both these mtgs & didnt work for me. Been going to coda mtgs & working steps now for 15years - saved my butt. I dont know if you can get coda sponsor online but you can ask, and if not im always here with suggestions etc. I admire your willingness to change hen lots of people say they want it, but do fuck all. So give yourself some credit. big hug on way to you.
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i did not and have not attended any CODA meetings. i will suggest something though.. i had my best friend become my sponsor. if you think they can handle it, ask them. it helps so much! i called her every night for a month and a half.. and eventually the calls shortened i i spoke less of my co-dependent ways. if you have a friend who is willing, and can treat it just like AA, i say go for it.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
