Well I called him and confronted him with his lie. He lied to me for about 10 mins then finally admitted that he was with his gf. All I can think about is,"what about her is better than me" what does she look like" " does she work" how old is she" and worst of all, how can he have sex with someone after 23 yrs of marriage? He told me he met her last summer and I know he had 2 other women at the same time. I am very scared that he is serious with her and will have a life with her. Does that make me a mean person? We have been seperated for 15 mths and I do not recieve any spousal support as we still own a house together, which has not sold yet. It really makes me mad that he is spending money and time on another woman, She lives about 1000 miles away so it does cost him to go visit her. I am scared I will not get my fair share of spousal support, he will claim he has someone else to support. He has threatened me with quitting his job. I will really be screwed then with support. I do not work as I am on a disability pension. I am constantly on edge.
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