My boyfriend of 13 months and myself were seperated due to the fact I was charged with a felony (which once restitution is paid and I am off probation, May of 2010.) He is a State Prisoner Officer. The State has asked for complete seperation with absolutely no contact. We love each other, and find it very difficult to stay apart we on live 9 houses away. There were a few codependency issues so the addiction factor is very painful for us both. He has been depressed and barely able to work. I had to go on strong meds. So far we have lived apart for 5 weeks, but he will stop over about once a week, and as he leaves he says we have to stop doing this. His job and his pension are at risk.
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