
Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
james
you are not poision...that is such a terribly dramatic and impactful thing to say to yourself, about yourself. your behaviors may need adjustment to move forward and learn how to develop healthy relationships but you are no poision...the only thing that is poisioning is your perceived reflection of you.
I know its easier said then done but I feel the same but I know we both can get through this!!!
words that aren't said in love are said from fear. try to speak from love but do not be spoken to from fear....yours or their's.
I am very proud of you. Your first sentence shows you have made a breakthrough in looking at the relationship in terms of the part you play. Whether it is in what you do, or what you allow. I know it hurts and it won't be easy, but you are well on your way to becoming a stronger healthy individual.
Who knows, along the way he may see that you have changed and want to be a part of your life again. If not, think of all the growth you will have made. What a wonderful perfect time of year to look forward.
Wishing you all my best for 2008.
Dr. G.