At the end of July my ex girlfriend broke up with me after a five month relationship. I told myself the breakup was a complete shock but looking back on it of course there were warning signs. I hadn't been into a girlfriend that much in 10 years. We were reading her Astrology profile and it said her sign has no problem with commitment. Out of nowhere she said she has 'great affection' for me in a very nervous way. I didn't want to question her about it because deep down I knew it was only going to be bad news and as I read about codependency I wanted to keep the relationship at all costs. At least early in the relationship I literally wrapped my leg around hers when we slept! I had never done that with a girlfriend before. She also showed the classic signs of codependency in that she always felt she had to take care of other peoples' needs and not hers. We never got in any fights and she never expressed her feelings about our relationship to me. Deep down I know it wasn't a healthy relationship but it has turned out to be one of the hardest to get over. Because o this relationship I realized I am codependent and the only way I will get past it is join codependency groups like this.
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