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much like a pros and cons list i want to list out every wrong that my husband has made in the last just 30 days and then i want to make a coinciding list of the excuses i accepted from or made for him and then i want to slap myself in the face for being gulible despite the fact that i knew i was being purposfully gulible!
and then i want to list the pros and make a list of every situation i should have comanded those pros in my life and acceptecd nothing yes.
can i do that today?
is this healthy to do?
am i just creating a game?
and at re-read this sounds as if i am terribly blaming my hub for everything when really my point is all about 'what i am accepting and doing' in light of some of my husband's behaviors.
and then i want to list the pros and make a list of every situation i should have comanded those pros in my life and acceptecd nothing yes.
can i do that today?
is this healthy to do?
am i just creating a game?
and at re-read this sounds as if i am terribly blaming my hub for everything when really my point is all about 'what i am accepting and doing' in light of some of my husband's behaviors.
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i think that is good to do. give you some clarity!
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