iam new here. iwas raised in an alcoholic household.i guess i have been a codependent since i was born.my husband is now in rehab for crack cocaine addiction that he started about 3 years ago.he is due to be out of rehab in march and i don't think im ready for that.iam working on my codepenancy issues by reading bondage to bonding and i was wondering if these meetings like coda are helpful? im having trouble finding one in my area,but im still looking. i feel that while he is getting help for his problem, i need to get help for mine,before he is allowed back in. also if anyone has another good book that they found helpful,please let me know.im happy i found this community,i feel like a weight has been lifted,like im not so much stuck in this bondage,i do see a way out.God bless everyone
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