need help my ex just called for the first time since we broke up a month ago. We haven't spoken to each other since he finalized our break-up through a text message a month ago. He texted my on Friday wishing me well and to say he misses me. I texted him with wish the best for you too. I know I cant be his friend because Im trying to move on and being his friend would complicate things. I don't know even if he wants to be friends, he said he has no hard feelings about our break up, thats easy for him to say because he took the easy way out and told me over a text. He is very much a narcasist, he is concerned with how I'm doing. Its been a struggle handling this break up but im using it to improve myself. I dont know what to do, he said to call him to say hi but would understand either way. I dont know if this is his way of creating choas in my life and then fleeing like he normally does. I liked being his friend before we dated a year but I think its too soon to be friends again. What to do?
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