gosh, feeling so stressed out about my relationship. i work full time and he is on disability. feel like he never does his share of keeping the house up and i am so resentful that i do so much more. when i try to talk to him about it he gets mad and says that he cant ever do anything right or i did vaccum the floor, as i am mad about many important things that need done to upkeep the house. important things, not just they way i want things done. like taking care of house maintenance and other things that need done. feel like i live with a huge child who is 58. then makes comments about me being on the computer or treadmill and not spending time with hi. well i am mad about his lazy attitude and dont really want to spend time with him. stress from work and want my time alone. he is resentful at my son who has congential heart disease and learning disabilities and the atmosphere when my son visit is very oppressive. i have told him i feel like this and does not compute. he is stoned and been drinking when i get home and i am not on that level, so seems he just tries to irritate me. i am so resentful at his time avaliable to get things done that i cant because i am at work. feel very unsetttled and need to probably leave the relationship. but seem unable to make that move. he gets so upset when we have problems and has even referred to sucicide to family and friends when we have problems. this is just so manipulative and immature. he drags friends and family into it. i know that he is depressed but he is so negative and wont get help. hate to come home most of the time after work. any advice or others who have similar experiences. i am unable to completely come to terms with this relationship and mad that i cant move on and let it go. scarey to start over and my past relationships have been that when i ended it i kept going back thinking that maybe i did not try all that i could have, but to angry to try approaching him with love. spiritual delimma. thanks for listening and sorry for rambling on. just about to blow my top!!!!!!!!!!
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