I'm so codependent I'm ruining my life. My daughter lives with me and my husband. She has an 8 year old and a 2 year old. She quit her job, said it was to stressful. My boss was looking for someone to answer phones and do Email so I got my daughter the job. This past January my boss started having financial trouble and had to let one of us go, guess who got fired. She said it was because my daughter was more experienced with computers than me. I think it was because I made more money than my daughter. I realize now, (a little to late) what a mistake it was to find a job for my daughter. I love her dearly and the grandchildren too but I really want her to move out. She doesn't make enough money to be able to get her own place. If I mention that maybe she needs to change jobs she thinks I'm just jealous because she has my job. I don't want to damage our relationship but she needs to go.
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