Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
QUESTIONS
Where does love end and free will begin?
When does concern become control?
When is advice replaced with nagging?
When does encouragement become harrassing?
How do you stand by and watch a loved one hurt?
How can you watch idolly as your heart melts away?
When someone becomes a part of you...
TELL ME - What is the correct thing to do?
Do you speak your mind, at all cost?
Or do you swallow it down and pretend that you are lost?
When does a savior become a bit**?
Where is the fine line? Where does it switch?
Am I wrong to love you? Is it wrong to care?
Is it wrong that in good or bad - that I want to be there?
You ask me to come close, but only as close as you say.............
Where does love end and free will begin?
When does concern become control?
When is advice replaced with nagging?
When does encouragement become harrassing?
How do you stand by and watch a loved one hurt?
How can you watch idolly as your heart melts away?
When someone becomes a part of you...
TELL ME - What is the correct thing to do?
Do you speak your mind, at all cost?
Or do you swallow it down and pretend that you are lost?
When does a savior become a bit**?
Where is the fine line? Where does it switch?
Am I wrong to love you? Is it wrong to care?
Is it wrong that in good or bad - that I want to be there?
You ask me to come close, but only as close as you say.............
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
by doing this sort of philosophizing we distract ourselves from the real issue, which is likely pain or fear or something of the sort.
start with loving you. once you can completely love yourself, then these questions will be answered.
(so they say....ha! ; ) )
i have those same thoughts all day every day. but i have learned to quiet them. it has brought amazing peace to me and change in all of my relationships.
practicing peace and detachment works for me.
blessings.