
Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
It's in the way I control my own thoughts, it's in the way I speak to my kids, it's in the way I overprotect my kids, it's in the incapability of living in the now, and in the way I want others to understand me and share my point of view, it's in my unwillingness to compromise and many other things...
In short, it's in every vain of my body, and it's going to take so much effort and time to get it out!
I think of CoDependency as any other problem and condition, we humans have. I don't think of this condition as a crutch, or a disease. I do try and look for the positive in it. It's put me closer to God. It's allowed me to lose some of my anger, and understand it. It's put me in touch with others who have had diverse and challenging lives. Through it, I think I'm better person, since I realized I wasn't in control of my life, only my behavior.
It's also allowed me to stop looking at the negative and trust life a little, without allowing my history to rule my emotions.
"The Wind"
The wind prevaricates it's woes to be,
It's path upon one's weary head.
Churning, twirling, spinning,
with no gantry upon this stead.
Here we see, what we became,
out of the tumult and turning.
Of life's participation of the shame.
the debits of good learning.
Our daily struggles we abhor,
out of acceptance, we create a defender.
the din shall hold us no more,
we have been tousled into surrender.
In our new found freedom we delight,
our courage and patience to change,
Our thoughts no longer focus on spite,
our own effervescence to re-arrange.
"Hamster"