When you purpose in your heart to get out of an unhealthy relationship (friendship, relative, spouse, bf/gf) and you get out and then you sooooo want to connect with that person, send an email/text - or even better, have him/her email/text/call you! - it's like wanting a Twinkie when you're on a diet, or wanting a cigarette when you're trying to quit, or wanting a drink when you're going sober, isn't it? You know what the healthy choice is. You know what's best for your body/heart/soul in the long-term, but the email would be like a Twinkie. It would satisfy the craving for now. It's bad bad bad for me, and it would set me back a step or two or ten, but it would feel soooo good. Sigh. Need to put down the Twinkie and pick up the celery.
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