Tomorrow I leave to go to christmas at my parents' house. The original plan was me, the 2 kids and t would all go and enjoy a great time. Since tuesday, when he said he would not be going with us, we have not spoken AT ALL. I find myself wanting to go to him, to give him an out, to say, hey, bygones, come with us to Christmas. Is this rescuing and is it okay to do? I told therapist last time that I was able to go 5 days without outwardly rescuing him and my goal was to go a full week, well, CHRISTMAS is tuesday. Monday to monday would be my goal and if i don't go to him, help him out of where he is in his mind, then he misses christmas with us, and our kids miss christmas with him. Blah
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