
Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...

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I don't even know if I'm codependent, but it feels like it whenever I'm in a relationship I get clingy and feel the need to be around them 24/7, taking care of them or even just to feel happy. I like to feel needed, and if feeling desired adds into it, then that's fine too. But every time I'm in a serious thing with someone, I have a hard time giving them space... like with Steven (just read my posts in the Healthy Relationships group) I smother him so much he gets angry with me, but he sort of understands concidering I did just lose my father to cancer, and he wants to be there as a friend, but he himself is not ready for a committed relationship like I feel ready for... it's so complicated. Am I codependent, or is it just my OCD kicking in with every guy I date? Just wondering...
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if he is not ready, he's not ready. so find somethings to do for yourself in the meantime while you sort this out.
continue to live your life. until the people we love are part of the pie, instead of the whole pie, we will always be disappointed. it's also a pretty heavy burden for someone else to carry.
blessings.