
Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...

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I know im posting lots today, but i do feel really down, and angry! i dont feel loved!! my b/f keeps telling me he loves me, but how can he love me if he cheated on me, even if he thinks that is a mistake! i called him selfish cus he catches up on his sleep, whilst its ok to keep me up late having sex! and theres poor me all over the place as it is, and having hardly any sleep beroe going to work and concentrating makes u feel like shit!! he doesnt c this!! y the hell not! its simple! he doesnt have to go to work,hes unemplyed! im so pissed off, people keep treating me like shit..i am teling everyone my needs but im not worth loving am i!
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it does begin with you. you have to step up and set some boundaries.
"codependent no more" is a great book.
I recently talked with a friend who was telling me she told her boyfriend what she wanted and then called it hinting. When I asked what she said, it was an "iffy" hint at best. She sat down and wrote it out on paper until she had a sentence that was a direct request for exactly what she wanted and then tried it. It helped her figure out exactly what she wanted and actually got her what she wanted as well. Just a thought. People don't always get common sense or hints. And maybe if you start with a basic need like sleep you will develop the ability to apply boundaries for the other things that are bothering you as well.
Said with love. OH and if you don't have the book Codependent No More, please get it. It is a real eye-opener.
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