i feel betrayed like i have been tricked into marrying someone who wasnt really being themself. i believed my now husband did not have a problem not drinking. for nearly 8 months he lived the regular lifestyle of working during the week, and if something was going on with friend on the weekend we would go out and socially drink, and he lived this was happily and i beleieve that behavior was here to stay. well we got married in dec 06 and about a month ago, he just started drinking one day, and hasnt stopped since. we fight all the time now, he always yells at me for the most rediculous things, and i honestly do nothing to deserve it. im miserable, andi dont even want to consider leaving him, but at the same time he promised me once that this exact thing would never happen, and i just dont know what to do because he doesnt thing he has a problem, and he damn sure doesnt think hes an alcoholic.
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