then what's the point to even make friends? Maybe just lock yourself in isolation and that's it! If we live our lives assuming the world is cold and distant and you can only rely on yourself to "self-soothe", how can we ever get personal satisfaction? I have one best friend and one husband. I tell them both what I need and they do their best to fulfill my needs. I do the same to them whenever I can. What I have trouble with is, until I meet the right person to make friend with, am I destined to be friendless on the times that my friend is unavailable? I don't use religion as a way to solve anything by the way, so don't jump in telling me god should save me because I dont even know if god exists. It's possible, anything is possible. I think expectations are still needed to carry on. I know the VAST majority of people out in the world are BAD people and it makes sense to learn to avoid it. But expectations of certain fulfillment is absolutely necessary for survival.
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