I have been in a relationship for 5 years now, and I have always helped him financially, even thought he doesn't want me to. He tells me no, I do it anyways, and then I don't even feel that satisfied afterwards. It has gotten to the point where he knows that I am stubborn and won't give in so he doesn't even try to fight me on it as much anymore, and I know that it wrong. I really have such a habit for doing things for him, mostly paying for plane tickets for us to see each other, because we never get to. My father was an alcoholic, and although I didn't see him too much in a bad state when I was younger, my mother tells me that is why I am this way, because her parents were alcoholics and they were the same way as well. Ny boyfriend and I fight a lot because I always try to fix things and be that one person for him to talk to, and then when he says no, I think he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do to make my relationship with my boyfriend better so that we are both comfortable?
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