I have been in a relationship for 5 years now, and I have always helped him financially, even thought he doesn't want me to. He tells me no, I do it anyways, and then I don't even feel that satisfied afterwards. It has gotten to the point where he knows that I am stubborn and won't give in so he doesn't even try to fight me on it as much anymore, and I know that it wrong. I really have such a habit for doing things for him, mostly paying for plane tickets for us to see each other, because we never get to. My father was an alcoholic, and although I didn't see him too much in a bad state when I was younger, my mother tells me that is why I am this way, because her parents were alcoholics and they were the same way as well. Ny boyfriend and I fight a lot because I always try to fix things and be that one person for him to talk to, and then when he says no, I think he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do to make my relationship with my boyfriend better so that we are both comfortable?
Posts You May Be Interested In
I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...