Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Hey all...
Honestly what am i doing. Dont know if i can be ok with my boyfriend, messing me about! cus he didnt value me, and now i dont even think i want to be with him now. This is one real stupid game! dont u think. i find it so annoying or im just angry tht he does not work! I want him to get a job so we can have a better quality of relationship, at least then i wont feel resentful for always providing for him. Damn i need to escape, even though i feel like i love him, wot am i doing this all for... things r hitting home!! please help. I want to tell him wihtout him offending him,but like if he wanted to work he wud right?? i dont think he had back problems that wud hinder him in some kind of employment. how he can survivie, bloody hell , hes surviving off me... wot to do.. he shud feel ashamed..,.
Honestly what am i doing. Dont know if i can be ok with my boyfriend, messing me about! cus he didnt value me, and now i dont even think i want to be with him now. This is one real stupid game! dont u think. i find it so annoying or im just angry tht he does not work! I want him to get a job so we can have a better quality of relationship, at least then i wont feel resentful for always providing for him. Damn i need to escape, even though i feel like i love him, wot am i doing this all for... things r hitting home!! please help. I want to tell him wihtout him offending him,but like if he wanted to work he wud right?? i dont think he had back problems that wud hinder him in some kind of employment. how he can survivie, bloody hell , hes surviving off me... wot to do.. he shud feel ashamed..,.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
He had a million different ones through the years but never kept them for long, always had some kind of reason why he had to quit.
Looking back on it now I guess he has some kind of emotional thing where he doesn't want to face the real world and I guess I made it easy for him. But he was a very great guy in most every other way.
You may have one attached to you. Another slang term would be leach.
He doesn't want to grow up, so escapes by finding codependent people/relationships?
It seems like Pamela78 is keeping him from growing up at her own expense, right? I mean, it sounds like all the while she is wishing/hoping/praying/raging for him to change... and for a different situation; but not acknowledging her responsibility for the situation she is in.
That's co-dependent, right?