Well I made a good start I made my step son move out saterday. even with all his excuses. Friday night after taking my husbend to the airport he sat around and watched pack and move 10 big boxes of books. and move a china cabnit that was so big it went all the way to the celing and never even offered to help me. Then him and his girl friend went out and got in the hot tub and she didnt even have a bathing sute. So I had no problem throuing him out thr next day. He used every excuse in the book. He took every thing but his clouths then that night he came and changed his clouth so he could go out and party. So the next morning I took all his clouth out of the closit and put them neatly in two piles on the couch and put my husbends clouths in there place so when he came back to change I told him he had to take his clouths with him. Now all he has is a little bit of stuff and his tooles on the paito. Then I painted his room the hallway and kitchen wall. when he came back I showed him all the work I had done and told him after his uncle leaves that we were closing up that room and not using it so we dont have to repaint when we move out and into a tiney condo we could aford. I also told him that if one of the grandkids come over to spend the night they could sleep on the couch. the look on his face was pricless. I know that he was planing to move right back in after his uncels vesit.