I learned a few months ago that I am heavily codependent. Always try to please others... never want to rock the boat...I don't want anyone mad at me... and am currently going through divorce #2 because I was cheated on .. and refused to see the warning signs. Anyway... Some days are definitely better than others. I have some amazing friends - one that struggles with thsi same thing herself. Her difference is that her spouse is an alcoholic. My mother is a non-recovered child of an alcoholic and I have found that is where a lot of my issues stem from. The old saying rang well to true in my home when I was growing up "If mama ain't happy, nobody's hsppy". I beleive that is where my codependency started.
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