I admit I'm very curious why ex texted me yesterday. Most people would say, it doesn't matter, or to just let it go. Ok, so for someone who is Codependent that is easier said than done. I've told him multiple times that I want no contact with him, yet he still tries. I'm curious about what is going thorugh his mind. Why, when he is the one who broke off the relationship does he still find it necessary to contact me. Why does he want to know how my kid's and I are doing? What does he care? He moved on. Does he have regret? He should! I am a great catch. I admitted that I had things in our relationship that I needed to work on and was willing to work on them by going to counseling (and still am), he bailed out, and never admitted that he had things he needed to work on, he never faced his issues. I was supportive, and outgoing. I'm attractive, I'm funny, and I have a lot of great qualities that he didn't appreciate, yet he tells me that I didn't appreciate him. I supported him when he quit his job, both emotionally and financially (I let him live in my house, w/o paying rent a couple of times ~ mind you to anyone who reads this, he did help do some remodeling to my house and paid for other things, so I don't want to give the impression that he was a TOTAL deadbeat). I was supportive! I was forgiving, maybe when I shouldn't have been! I am a great catch! I am a great partner! So he should have regret! Damn him!
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