I left a very unhealthy relationship about two weeks ago. My ex is making it difficult to move on with my life by making contact with me. I have given in and have made contact with him in return. I don't want to give in to his pathetic attempts for sympathy. He has gone to his family and my friends to turn them against me and to gain their sympathy. He is convinced that I am the bad one, although in the end, he abused me physically and emotionally throughout our relationship. I am feeling guilty. I am letting him get to me. How do I get past this? He is holding my personal belongings as some sort of collateral and refuses to return them to me. He has also contacted my ex to make himself feel better about the demise of our relationship. I feel betrayed and hurt.
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