long story short... I was married 17 years and got divorced last year but got pregnant lost my baby and went back to my ex. (read my profile) We have had a turbulent relationship and it is all I've known. When I got divorced I really wasn't focused on myself. Now that I am back with the ex and getting my head out of the sand I see the old habits returning. I am turning into that same codependent person and I am drinking more now and he wants to get remarried but I am not in any hurry to do that!! Is that wrong?? I do love him so much! How do I accept my ex for who his is without compromising what is important to me?? I know that he is not going to quit drinking and what can I do to keep the peace??
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