I recognize now that not only had i become codependent to by exbf, but to his mother too. She is a very controlling, intrusive person, and i believed she his much of why he is today. Both he & his mom have similar traits where they are never held accountable for the actions, their words. I have tried numerous times to distant myself from her. It has been so hard. The last time her son treated me with disrespect, i told her it was enuf. well she was mad at me??? told her family not to have any contact with me, which was just what i knew i needed and wanted. who cares if i'm the bad guy because i stand up for me! Well she's been in florida for a week, before she left, she sends an email stating i'll call you while i'm gone, if you don't mind. so far havent heard from her, but shes there for another week. i dont know how to handle this. if she calls while gone, i'll let the call go into voicemail, but i know when she returns she'll be emailing calling constantly. i dont want to hurt her feelings, but i know if i had dealt with her in the beginning i wouldnt be having to deal with this today. I'm afraid to upset her, i'm afraid she'll say mean untruthful things. I don't know if i continue to ignore her or be honest in a way that will not upset her. any advise would be appreciated. I really want to move on from all of them!
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