I recognize now that not only had i become codependent to by exbf, but to his mother too. She is a very controlling, intrusive person, and i believed she his much of why he is today. Both he & his mom have similar traits where they are never held accountable for the actions, their words. I have tried numerous times to distant myself from her. It has been so hard. The last time her son treated me with disrespect, i told her it was enuf. well she was mad at me??? told her family not to have any contact with me, which was just what i knew i needed and wanted. who cares if i'm the bad guy because i stand up for me! Well she's been in florida for a week, before she left, she sends an email stating i'll call you while i'm gone, if you don't mind. so far havent heard from her, but shes there for another week. i dont know how to handle this. if she calls while gone, i'll let the call go into voicemail, but i know when she returns she'll be emailing calling constantly. i dont want to hurt her feelings, but i know if i had dealt with her in the beginning i wouldnt be having to deal with this today. I'm afraid to upset her, i'm afraid she'll say mean untruthful things. I don't know if i continue to ignore her or be honest in a way that will not upset her. any advise would be appreciated. I really want to move on from all of them!
Posts You May Be Interested In
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...