I am an adult child of an alcoholic so I have always been told I should watch out for codependency. My other parent is an abuser, emotional abuse. I have been involved with a man that I felt was my first IN LOVE experience in my life, though I have had many long term relationships and loved them, just not to this degree. He suffers from depression and he smokes pot. He also hides it from me which I always found odd because I wasn't overly concerned. He broke up with me after an argument on Sunday & he left. He lives an hour away. He refused to speak to me. He has now told me by email that he doesn't know if he has ever loved anyone. We have been committed to each other for almost 5 years. I believe he is in a depression & after long term unemployment & financial difficulties I am too. I don't feel like I can survive this. I feel completely shocked, hurt, abandoned and betrayed & yet I am terribly worried he is shutting people out in preparation for a suicide attempt. I do not have any close friends to talk to...
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