I have been married for 20 years and recently found out that my husband was involved in an emotional relationship with someone at work (intimate lunches, phone calls, walks, emails, etc) I went away with my sister and son for a weekend and they met at a restaurant and spent the evening together, which I found out about. For various reasons the relationship did not go much further, not my husbands choice, and after getting past a few more weeks of lies we have reached a place where we are going to work on our relationship and go to counseling. I know I have a codependency issue, but would really like to hear from other women/men who have experienced the same thing. How did you get past the hurt and be able to trust again? I still feel like he is not giving as much to the relationship as I am and an more hurt by this. He doesn't show that much remorse and I am trying to be the good wife. He has had other issues and questionable behaviors over the years, but as far as I know not like this. I want to trust that he wants to make out marriage work, but it seems like I am doing most of the work. Anyone out there who has been though this?
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