i have always known something was wrong with me when i was in a relationship, but not until recently did i learn it was codependancy. i got "codependant no more" and feel like she is writing obout my life. i am trying to change my life because i have met a wonderful man who is willing to support me and understands, however i feel like he is at the end of his rope, i explain to him that the more he withdraws, the tighter i hold. i feel very rejected if he doesn't want sex as often as i do, if he doesn't pay enough attention to me, and a slew of other things i feel he should do, but doesn't. I feel like i am in turmoil and am upset alot. i feel like i know what is wrong, now i want someone to tell me the things to do to fix it, like a checklist. i try and try to change my thought patterns, reactions etc. i just dont feel like i am doing enough. if someone said stand on your head and gargle, and it will be cured, i would do it right away. i dont know if the question i am asking is clear? maybe.... what have some of you done, areas you have tried to change what does it take? can ya help????? thank you.
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