My husband has a drug problem. What I dont understand is we have two children. How do they now come first. Now he says I have to leave him be so he can concentrate on himself. We have a two month old and he has been to rehab two times. I resent him for not being here for us. I dont understand. He goes to meetings but when he is home he does nothing if he is awake and mostly sleeps. So I cant ask him for help with our two month old because it is all about him. When do you stop having withdrawals or feeling like crap. First he tells me he needs a week to recovery and now he has been home for about two weeks and still he does nothing to help. God forbid if I ask him to help he treats me like I just did something horrible. Is it ok to be so self centered? Should I juststop trying to understand. I ask to go to meetings with him but he does not want me to. He says maybe in time. A lot of his friends go to meetings also. Sometimes when he gets home he will tell me who was there like it was a social gathering. Once you have children you are not suppossed to be selfish anymore right? Will he ever recover?
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