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Hi there last message i made up for my part in things.
things are still crap. I am still being told to do things in one hand and then told i dont do anything in the other hand and if i do do anything its wrong anyway.gotta go as she is stomping down the stairs probably to tell me to do something else which i will do but next week be told i dont do.
things are still crap. I am still being told to do things in one hand and then told i dont do anything in the other hand and if i do do anything its wrong anyway.gotta go as she is stomping down the stairs probably to tell me to do something else which i will do but next week be told i dont do.
I read your post and wonder - "what is going on?" You sound like she is a task master and your are her puppet.
Is this how you imagine a "loving and mutual relationship?" I ask this because - you do not deserve this. If she asks you to do something - let her wait until you are finished doing what you you are doing - unless it is an emergency - do not jump when she commands. If she asks nicely like and adult - respond in kind. Otherwise - don't.