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Have you talked over the cheating issue with your boyfriend? You said that you two can talk about things openly... I'd think the first order of biz you clearing the air about those negative feeling you have.
You also have an issue about work/money. That shouldn't be piled in on top of the cheating, that's a separate issue. If you want to take a break from him while you work through the cheating that's one thing.
If your boyfriend doesn't have money, is there anybody else who would be willing to help him in while you resolve the cheating issue?
Once you get that figured out then you can work on your money issues.