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my hub's grandpa is very ill and has been for some time and it appears he will be crossing over very soon. yesterday my husband went to visit his grandfather and i had asked to go too but he didn't feel it necessary....
my husband too told me that the visiting nurse was there last evening and gave some detail as to what she had to do for him and that it was she (the visiting nurse) who said he must be admitted tomorrow, it's an emergency.
well, okay, yesterday i had some question about all that information my husband provided and upon questioning decided to 'lay-off' because he was upset and could have been confusing some information naturally.
well i just rang his aunt to check in on grandpa and grandma and was informed his appmt. wasn't until 2:30 today (hmm, thought he was being admitted to the hospital) and that she'll know more then but they'll try to reduce leg swelling/water retention etc...and likely send him home (huh? now i know grandpa is ill but this is hardly the detrimental situation my hub described in great detail yesterday evening). also there is no visiting nurse...
why would he make things up concerning his grandpa's death...?
what is going on in his head...?
how do i approach this with him...?
what?
thoughts?
my husband too told me that the visiting nurse was there last evening and gave some detail as to what she had to do for him and that it was she (the visiting nurse) who said he must be admitted tomorrow, it's an emergency.
well, okay, yesterday i had some question about all that information my husband provided and upon questioning decided to 'lay-off' because he was upset and could have been confusing some information naturally.
well i just rang his aunt to check in on grandpa and grandma and was informed his appmt. wasn't until 2:30 today (hmm, thought he was being admitted to the hospital) and that she'll know more then but they'll try to reduce leg swelling/water retention etc...and likely send him home (huh? now i know grandpa is ill but this is hardly the detrimental situation my hub described in great detail yesterday evening). also there is no visiting nurse...
why would he make things up concerning his grandpa's death...?
what is going on in his head...?
how do i approach this with him...?
what?
thoughts?
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
what are you concerned about? why do YOU hink he would be lying? that is the answer baby.
xo
it makes no sense to make up stories...it just doesn't! this isn't the big football game he didn't play in but years later is the MVP...know what I mean?
It isn't normal. That's why I care. And if he lies about this...well...what the hell else am I buying that he's selling?
is that analyzing his behavior gets you nowhere fast. it's like sitting in a rocking chair. what moves us forward is determining WHY we are in it, what the payoff is for us.looking within instead of distracting ourselves with another's behavior.......
can't i beat my head against the wall if i feel like it? yeash!
*giggle*
really, i know. i'm just a girl full of theses moments!
oh, hub is back, but in toe view only...i was having some 'amy difficulty' in finding the pic i wanted up there...*shaking head*
I guess as afloat said, trying to figure out why he's lying isn't going to help. Deciding how you are going to take those pink little toe nails through or around the cow pies is. *hugs*