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my hub's grandpa is very ill and has been for some time and it appears he will be crossing over very soon. yesterday my husband went to visit his grandfather and i had asked to go too but he didn't feel it necessary....
my husband too told me that the visiting nurse was there last evening and gave some detail as to what she had to do for him and that it was she (the visiting nurse) who said he must be admitted tomorrow, it's an emergency.
well, okay, yesterday i had some question about all that information my husband provided and upon questioning decided to 'lay-off' because he was upset and could have been confusing some information naturally.
well i just rang his aunt to check in on grandpa and grandma and was informed his appmt. wasn't until 2:30 today (hmm, thought he was being admitted to the hospital) and that she'll know more then but they'll try to reduce leg swelling/water retention etc...and likely send him home (huh? now i know grandpa is ill but this is hardly the detrimental situation my hub described in great detail yesterday evening). also there is no visiting nurse...
why would he make things up concerning his grandpa's death...?
what is going on in his head...?
how do i approach this with him...?
what?
thoughts?
my husband too told me that the visiting nurse was there last evening and gave some detail as to what she had to do for him and that it was she (the visiting nurse) who said he must be admitted tomorrow, it's an emergency.
well, okay, yesterday i had some question about all that information my husband provided and upon questioning decided to 'lay-off' because he was upset and could have been confusing some information naturally.
well i just rang his aunt to check in on grandpa and grandma and was informed his appmt. wasn't until 2:30 today (hmm, thought he was being admitted to the hospital) and that she'll know more then but they'll try to reduce leg swelling/water retention etc...and likely send him home (huh? now i know grandpa is ill but this is hardly the detrimental situation my hub described in great detail yesterday evening). also there is no visiting nurse...
why would he make things up concerning his grandpa's death...?
what is going on in his head...?
how do i approach this with him...?
what?
thoughts?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
what are you concerned about? why do YOU hink he would be lying? that is the answer baby.
xo
it makes no sense to make up stories...it just doesn't! this isn't the big football game he didn't play in but years later is the MVP...know what I mean?
It isn't normal. That's why I care. And if he lies about this...well...what the hell else am I buying that he's selling?
is that analyzing his behavior gets you nowhere fast. it's like sitting in a rocking chair. what moves us forward is determining WHY we are in it, what the payoff is for us.looking within instead of distracting ourselves with another's behavior.......
can't i beat my head against the wall if i feel like it? yeash!
*giggle*
really, i know. i'm just a girl full of theses moments!
oh, hub is back, but in toe view only...i was having some 'amy difficulty' in finding the pic i wanted up there...*shaking head*
I guess as afloat said, trying to figure out why he's lying isn't going to help. Deciding how you are going to take those pink little toe nails through or around the cow pies is. *hugs*