Men messing with my career, i've realised, has gone from being a few instances to actually a neverending defining factor of it. Due to the nature of my industry and it being vastly male-dominated, men have tried to emotionally blackmail me into all kinds of things using their authority over me in the industry. Many have become very clever and adept at this, using passive aggressive behaviour and ways that are difficult to apprehend. I'm starting to feel very bitter, I must admit, that my advancement has been stunted. I feel this has happened primarily because I haven't given a lot of guys what they would like. I feel like I am being dragged down in so many cases when I should have been lifted up. Even by some of those who I have contributed greatly and caused them to have great success.
I'm so upset that I feel so bitter, tired, and victimised. I wish I could see a way out. Having been having a lot of dark thoughts lately.
I have been sober for a little over 8 months. I thought I was getting over my anxiety and thought loops then out of the blue they both came back and severely. Has anyone else had or is experiencing this? I need some coping skills. Thanks in advance.
when someone likes anything on DS there is no way to know who liked it and what the heck good is it to have a like button that nobody knows who has submitted their like?we used to get notifications when someone liked something we wrote or put into our journals....and I think before we could hover over the like button with 3 likes and see who had put that they liked our post or journal or...