Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Its been 2 weeks since my big revelation, that i am indeed codependent. I'm a rather quick study and immediatly bought the book and worked to change my behavior. Small steps indeed but they seem to have had the biggest change in my relationship with my husband. 3 weeks ago I was gonna give this marriage until March to see if it could work or not. things are MUCH better. No fighting AT ALL in 2 weeks which has to be a record in our 10 year reationship. Today we have been Christmas shopping with the kiddos, harmonious day. I even rec'd an unsolicited hug and i love you. I want to be happy about the change but I don't trust it. Is this normal, me not trusting it? How long before i am confident in everyone's behavior, mine included.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
ah grasshopper, the $10 million question! we all want to know when we can trust it, why not start right now?
everyday it gets a bit more "normal".....
just keep practicing these new behaviors...fake it til ya make it.
you are doing beautifully.
it's amazing how things change when we change, huh?
way to go!
and really, the only thing we can safely trust is our ability to handle what the universe throws at us, right?
xo!
Congrats!!!
when we accept that how we feel is "just for today" and what we think is "just for today" then we know the good times are fleeting and enjoy them more.
we know the bad times are fleeting and are able to chase them away a bit faster.
one day you will realize "hey! i'm trusting! i'm not even questionning it!" and that will feel soooo good.
we grow in fits and starts. it's not a smooth line and the growth doesn't end.
but you are growing, you are asking all the right questions of yourself....
just for today you are right where you should be, and that is enough!!!
(((((((((respect!))))))))))