Its been 2 weeks since my big revelation, that i am indeed codependent. I'm a rather quick study and immediatly bought the book and worked to change my behavior. Small steps indeed but they seem to have had the biggest change in my relationship with my husband. 3 weeks ago I was gonna give this marriage until March to see if it could work or not. things are MUCH better. No fighting AT ALL in 2 weeks which has to be a record in our 10 year reationship. Today we have been Christmas shopping with the kiddos, harmonious day. I even rec'd an unsolicited hug and i love you. I want to be happy about the change but I don't trust it. Is this normal, me not trusting it? How long before i am confident in everyone's behavior, mine included.
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