I joined Alanon about 4 years ago (Thank GOD) because I was a mess and in a really bad place. One of the things I learned in my first meeting was detatching. It has helped me alot, staying out of my husbands business has made me feel so much better and I am finally focusing on myself but I also feel like my feelings for him are changing I'm not sure if I'm in love with him anymore. Do you think I'm detatching too much?
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