My higher power just showed me that my family is choosing the irresponsible behavior. This realization made my heart hurt as if a loved 1 had died! I believed on many levels that if they could think straight and fulfill responsibilities that of course they would.I was wrong. I have enabled it. Now what? I am very confused about my options (reasonable ones).I fear my leaving will do emotional harm. But they cannot/will not change while I am present. I taught them they don't have to. I am collapsing and see no way out that takes into account my families health in all aspects. Do I leave the "hole" I've enabled....how fair is that? I'm exhausted
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