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I know that is probably not the answer you wanted..
Still love Ya! And I am sure they do to.
In my case, I have in the past had to separate from family members who went back to physically abusive partners or continued to abuse themselves, because it was too painful for me to stay involved and watch it. I did not have the boundaries to just be there without feeling their pain or trying to rescue. I would become depressed. So I had to set a physical boundary.
I would expect no less from people in my life if it were I who were doing this. That would be their right and I would understand why they were doing it. Of course, I would welcome a friend with good boundaries who could take it, but those are few and probably have a lot of recovery themselves.
Of course, I do not know your particulars in this case, TL.