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Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...

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To make a long story short...I'm codependent. I got out of a bad relationship, worked on it, got back with him, and now this happens.
When I left for a conference, he had 9 condoms. I get back and there's 6. He told me I was psycho for checking on him in this way. He said if I left him again it is my fault b/c he did nothing wrong.
I am codependent, and the last time I left I was non-functional until he came back. I feel stupid if I stay and I can't handle leaving.
Any advice?
When I left for a conference, he had 9 condoms. I get back and there's 6. He told me I was psycho for checking on him in this way. He said if I left him again it is my fault b/c he did nothing wrong.
I am codependent, and the last time I left I was non-functional until he came back. I feel stupid if I stay and I can't handle leaving.
Any advice?
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