is anyone in the group codependent on a friend. i am codependent on my friend. she calls me "doc" if that means anything. haha cause i am always there to listen and try and solve her problems. i am trying to detach with love. what started it all is that she is very promiscuous and for a while she wasnt sleeping around but all of sudden she has 5 different boyfriends and she is constantly telling me about all her sexual experiences. i am afraid to tell her that its TMI cause i told her i would always be there for her. afraid if i tell her TMI then she will abandon me.i THRIVE on offering her advice. it boosts my self esteem. i know this is unhealthy. i also kind of feel guilty for detaching cause i feel i am abandoning her. if anyone feels like reading i have journaled the last few days about her. i feel i need to be tolerable of her lifestyle or i am not loving her unconditionally. very confused . i just found this site and hope i can make some friends and talk about issues.
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