I too am a co depedent but to a degree I had to step up and take charge of my disease. I had to quit blaming people for my problem. If people who are negative in our lives stay in our lives then we have to be half responsible for that choice. We can walk away if we really want to. There\'s resources out there for us. Lets not keep making excuses for our behavior and poor choices. Take a stand and stick with it. People will use that weakness against us, it we let them. We need someone that\'s going to be very supportive and if they can\'t be then their not the one for us and we need to move on.
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