Codependency Support Group

Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...

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CAN I LOVE HIM AGAIN?

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RIGHT NOW I REALLY KNOW THAT I ODNT LOVE MY HUSBAND OF 20 YEARS, IM SO ANGRY AT HIM, I DONT KNOW IF I CAN FORGIVE HIM,HES GETTING ALL KINDS OF HELP, AND SAYS TINGS THAT HES UNDERSTNADING, IM JUST NOT SURE IF I CAN STICK AROUND AND WAIT FOR TEH CHANGES TO HAPPEN, LIVED SO LONG IN THE OLD WAYS. THE SAD THING IS I WISH FOR THAT IN DEATH DO US PART THING IN A WAY, WHY DID GOD LET ME GO THROUGH THIS ABUSE, ADN OUR KIDS, WHY? WHY CANT HE MAKE HIM DISAPPEAR, IM THE GOOD PERSON HERE, ITS NOT FAIR.I KEEP PRAYING FOR GOD TO TAKE OVER BUT I GUESS HE HAS IN A WAY,HUBBYS GETTING HELP, BUT I JUST CANT SEEM TO BE IN LOVE WITH HIM RIGHT NOW, IM HURTING. IM ALL OVER THE PLACE WITH THE CODEPENDENCY THING IVE MADE ALOT OF PROGREESSS AND THAT IS FOR ME NOT HIM.HE KEEPS SAYING I LOE YOU AND WILL BE TOGETHER FOR MANY YEARS TO COME RIGHT?I HATE HIM ASKING ME THIS.
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are you participating in an alanon group and/or seeing a counselor?
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Hi, You haven't left him, so maybe you want him to be healthier for you someday? Maybe you want to be angry and not love him now because it is safe, since he is getting help to change. Hurt, fear, sadness, and injustice is beneath anger. Talking, talking, talking is the only way I know to ease it away.
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YES IM IN ALANON ADN COUNCILING, TY SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE. ANNNN YOU JUST MIGHT BE RIGHT, WHO KNOWS?
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